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How I Manifested The Man Of My Dreams

In the summer of 2022, I was single and frustrated with the chaotic dating scene of my life. I was tired of men playing games, sending mixed signals, and ghosting. It was all too exhausting for me to put up with.

After a particularly discouraging experience with a guy I was talking to, I wrote down a list of all the qualities I wanted in my dream man. Little did I know that this journal entry would change my life.

Fast forward a month or two, and I meet the love of my life – my best friend, completely unexpectedly. Our relationship is beyond anything I could have imagined. It’s like the universe conspired to bring us together. It’s more than anything I could have scripted, prayed for, or even thought about. I let go of any expectations and trusted the universe, and boy, did it deliver!

Looking back at my journal entry, I was shocked to see how everything fell into place exactly as I had written. It made me truly understand the power of thoughts and manifestation.

So, let’s get into how to manifest like a pro.

1. Get clear on what you want, and be as specific as possible.

I’ve always been a die-hard romantic at heart, never one for casual dating or hookups. It just doesn’t sit right with me. As an INFJ, I seek depth and authenticity in my connections. So, I have always visualized a healthy, long-term relationship for myself and wrote the emotions I hoped to feel when in that relationship.

For example, I hope to feel completely safe and understood in my relationships. In addition to that, I like to surround myself with people who will always uplift and empower me. What kind of emotions are you hoping to feel in your ideal relationship? Write it down.

2. Do what best feels natural to you

I love bringing my desires to life using scripting, affirmations, and vision boards. When I script, I always write as if my dreams have already come true. The important thing is to do what feels most natural and exciting for you so you can enjoy the manifestation process.

3. Take action steps in your day-to-day life around it.

Another way to meet the universe halfway is to do your part. In sticking with the relationship analogy, I wanted a meaningful, long-term connection, so I stopped wasting time on those whose goals didn’t align with mine. Break up with the person you’re staying with because you’re scared to be alone. Take that leap of faith that affirms you believe it’s real. Dress up, go out with your friends or take yourself out on dates, have fun, be confident, and meet new people. Doing this allows the universe to bring the right person into your life. This is called doing the footwork for the universe.

4. Focus on feeling and visualizing

Here’s a brilliant manifestation tip that my friend shared with me. She used it to manifest her perfect partner. Picture yourself experiencing all the glorious details of your dream relationship—the laughter, holding hands, cooking together, or strolling on the beach—whatever symbolizes the ultimate relationship bliss to you.

The key is to immerse yourself in the vision by adding as many details as possible: the sights, sounds, smells, and most importantly, the feelings. Feel the joy of that deep connection, freedom, safety, and love with that person. The focus should be on the emotions this connection stirs within you.

Getting caught up in the shallow details of their physical appearance can be limiting, and asking for “man in finance, trust fund, blue eyes” might bring you a gorgeous jerk … again. So, stay open to the surprise the universe has in store for you.

5. Reprogram your mind to attract goodness and live in the end.

Know that you’re worthy. Remind yourself of all the goodness within you and all the beauty you already have. When manifesting, do it from a place of feeling complete and deserving, not from a place of lacking or feeling needy. You are loved and cherished by the universe. Come from this place of power and deep connection.

6. Don’t go looking for love; be the love you want in your life, and it will come to you

Fall in love with yourself first. Only then, you’ll be able to give someone else your unconditional love.

7. Act as if you already are or have something despite what your world shows you.

Feel it in your bones that your wish is coming to life. Detach yourself from the desperation and restlessness of needing it now. Surrender it all to the mystical universe, which knows when to deliver it in the perfect time and way.

8. Always be grateful

No matter where you’re in life, be aligned with the energy of gratitude.

9. Become fully content within yourself

If you want a partner who goes to the gym and cares for their health, you must be that person for yourself first. Similarly, if you’re looking for love, then fill your cup with that love first. In my case, I stopped looking for love. Not in an ‘I don’t need no man’ attitude, but rather, ‘I value love and relationships, but I am also very content in being single forever because I cherish my happiness and life.’

Lastly, here are some of my favourite manifestation tools to add more sacredness to your wish.

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xo,

Yachna

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August 26, 2024
Thoughts Everyone Has While Rewatching ‘Gossip Girl’

I’ll never forget being a fashion-obsessed teenager when Gossip Girl first aired. It was love at first watch. Set in New York City, following the scandalous lives of elite high schoolers from the Upper East Side.

I have to admit, it’s toxic, but oh so addicting! Back then, I wasn’t interested in watching characters grapple with morality. I lived for the drama, the scandal, and the fabulous lives of the rich, the hot, and the unapologetically evil characters on the show.

Now, I’m knee-deep in my Gossip Girl rewatch and am just as obsessed as the first time. Something about this show pulls me in. Maybe it’s the consistently fabulous costumes or the because of such iconic cast. I mean, I can just look at Nate Archibald all day. The show has always held me spellbound, and I’m revisiting it for that exact reason.

Rewatching the show as an adult in my thirties was completely different from watching it in my teens or early twenties, and here are all my thoughts.

Note: I’d say spoilers, but if you haven’t seen Gossip Girl yet, that’s on you.

1. The biggest WTF moment was trying to portray the Humphreys as poor. Come on, they live in a spacious loft in DUMBO, and Rufus was a successful art gallery owner and band member! With two kids in private school, they definitely aren’t struggling. Humphreys are at least solidly middle class, if not upper middle class.

2. I couldn’t stop laughing during the pilot episode when Nate and Chuck were seen riding a public school bus. It still bothers me to this day! I mean, can you really expect me to believe that Chuck and Nate would ever ride a public bus to school? It made no sense at all, and they never did it again!

3. VANESSA!!! Need I say more? I just don’t understand why Vanessa was part of the show. After watching the show again, I realized that if she weren’t in it, it would still be the same show. She did nothing but make me irrationally angry at all times and managed to get on every single one of my nerves. Honestly, she really should’ve just stayed in Brooklyn.

4. Jenny Humphrey is the worst character ever. I just can’t get over how terrible Jenny Humphrey was in Season 3. She turned her back on her friend Eric to become queen bee and then threw yogurt on him! And then starts dealing drugs and stealing from Lily, who has always been there for her. And let’s not even get started on how she tried to steal Nate from Serena, who has always been accepting and supportive of Jenny.

The worst thing Jenny did was just everything in Serena’s teacher plotline. Like, okay, Serena was mean to you one time, so you conspired with a crazy stalker to ruin her life, get her kicked out of college, and (unbeknownst to Jenny) roofied and framed for a drug overdose. That was really the moment I was done with Jenny and Vanessa.

5. I will never forgive the writers for destroying Rufus and Lily!!! They were the only couple that made sense and should have ended up together.

6. Nate and Serena were endgame. Why didn’t they end up together? It was literally SO obvious from the very beginning that they were meant to be together. I hate even pairing Nate with such a morally questionable character because he somehow happened to be the sweetest character. Still, they got along so well and had similar attitudes towards their lifestyle, and most importantly they had such a meaningful friendship.

7. The show really did Nate dirty. His character had so much potential, but the writers just kind of dropped the ball on his development. Plus, let’s be honest: Nate is beautiful to look at. Sure, he may not have been the most exciting character, but at least he never betrayed anyone for his gain. But imagine if Gossip Girl turned out to be Nate; it would have added a whole new, dark layer to his character, especially considering his feelings of not belonging.

8. I couldnt believe how unrealistic Blair’s wedding look was in Gossip Girl’s season five? With her impeccable fashion sense, her mom’s fame as a fashion designer, and all her wealth, it’s hard to understand how she ended up looking like that on her wedding day to an actual prince! I was expecting something more Grace Kelly-like from her, not the loose hair with a strapless white gown.

9. Can we talk about how they suddenly stopped going to university? Like, why is no one attending classes?

10. I don’t think Dan and Blair were thrown together for shock value. In fact, upon rewatching the show, I noticed they had one of the most refreshing friendships/relationships. They took the time to build a solid friendship in seasons 4 and 5 before getting together at the end of season 5. This kind of slow-burn development is rare in the show. When Dan wrote Louis’ vows, Blair said it was like he peered into her soul! Their friendship was more mature than many others on the show, and most importantly, they made each other genuinely happy in a healthy way.

11. Serena and Dan’s endgame was rushed. It was like he was madly in love with Blair, and then five minutes later, it was Serena again.

12. Can we just talk about how they’re like 15, and they’re drinking martinis at a hotel on a school night?? I can’t believe how much alcohol they consumed throughout the series, especially since they were all underage for the first few seasons. It’s pretty wild!

13. Chuck and Lily’s relationship is the series’ highlight. I adored their relationship.

14. In every episode, the things that go down are absolutely outrageous. Chuck Bass’s predatory behaviour is off the charts. And yet, despite all the toxicity, you find yourself inexplicably rooting for him. It’s like he’s that reformed bad boy who’s a total jerk to everyone except his one true love. Honestly, it’s like something straight out of a Wattpad fan fiction. Even as a teenager and fully aware of how toxic Chuck and Blair’s relationship was, I couldn’t help but cheer them on.

15. Blair and Chuck may not have been innocent, but their character development was absolutely top-notch. Their storyline was hands down one of the most gripping and authentic in the entire series.

16. Serena is the only character who never changed throughout the entire show. And every episode and season-ending, there she was, insisting, “I’m trying to change”!!!!! The way Dan portrayed her in his book as a shallow socialite seems accurate. I mean, having an affair with a politician at 20, not attending college, and not even working – just living off her family’s wealth? She should have stayed in LA and focused on her film career instead.

17. I’ve always thought that NYC was the most important character in Gossip Girl and the one that continually saved it and made it interesting. Specifically, it was the elite bubble of NYC. The real estate and fashion porn, specific to NYC, in the show, is really what kept people hooked and coming back for more. The fantasy of it all, more so than the actual storyline, made the show the cultural zeitgeist that it was. People didn’t want to be Serena, Blair, or Chuck because they liked them as people; they wanted to be them because they loved how and where they lived. The same show, with the same storyline and characters, wouldn’t have worked elsewhere outside of wealthy New York.

18. The strongest thing about GG was that all lead actors made their characters much more than they were on paper…every single actor/actress in Gossip Girl gave this story life.

19. Blair Waldorf is hands down the most captivating character ever written for TV. She’s sharp-witted, manipulative, and unapologetically entitled. And I love her for it. BLAIR was the backbone of the show; every teen drama tries to replicate a “Blair” character but falls short.

20. Let’s talk LOOPHOLES. Who was Chuck’s mother? What happened to her? And remember Lily and Rufus’ son, Scott? Whatever happened to him? He just…disappeared.

21. Dan should never have been revealed as GG. The Gossip Girl should have always been Kristen Bell sending a text, breaking the fourth wall by winking at the audience, and then walking away down a busy NY street because she really is nobody and everybody.

Have you re-watched a series like Gossip Girl that blew your mind, even though you’d already seen it? Let us know in the comments below <3

xo

Yachna

August 22, 2024
Can You Be Friends With Your Ex
It’s a classic rom-com trope we’ve all seen a million times. We’ve listened to a million love songs about it. And we’ve probably used “the line” at one point or another: “Let’s stay friends, okay?”.

The idea of being friends with an ex can be complicated. You’ve likely experienced unforgettable, life-changing memories and intimacy with this person, so naturally, there’s a temptation to keep them in your life. Or, you may also be part of the same friendship circle, so avoiding them could mean having no social life.

I don’t stay friends with my exes, and I avoid dating men who are still best friends with theirs. That’s my opinion, of course; everyone is different. The reason is that after a breakup, I want to heal and move on with my life fresh, without any emotional baggage from the past.

Healing and growth require a fresh start, free from reminders of past relationships. How can you truly grow if you have a constant reminder of your past mistakes around you, keeping you in a rut?

Another reason is that some feelings never go away, which is disrespectful to their new partner and my current partner. When I was young and naive, I thought staying friends with my ex after our breakup was a brilliant idea. At the time, it seemed like a good way to ease my pain, even if it was just a temporary fix.

Looking back, I realize how wrong I was. Trying to be friends only led to more heartache and confusion. It was a tough lesson, but I learned the hard way that staying friends with an ex is usually a recipe for confusion and emotional rollercoasters.

That so-called “friendship” not only kept me emotionally stuck, but it also held me back from growing personally and moving forward in my new relationship. So, why keep investing in something that’s already over? It’s like watering a dead plant – what’s the point?

Of course, when you have kids with the person, it’s a different thing; your life will be tangled forever, so it’s good to have a good relationship. I have friends who are friends with their ex-husband.

Before you consider being friends with your ex, ask yourself these important questions: Can you still be friends with your ex when they fall in love with someone else? Someone you don’t like? Someone else in your friend circle? If you can’t maintain strong boundaries when your relationship is over, or if it causes emotional distress, you’re not prepared to be an actual friend.

In my experience, lovers and friends can only happen once no romantic feelings are left and no one has a hidden agenda. If you (or the other person) have any hopes of getting back together, it’s very difficult to develop a real friendship.

While writing this post, I asked some friends for their opinions. Here are some of their responses-

“I’m very close friends with an ex. I get along great with their partner, it’s no big deal. But we were virtually no contact after the breakup for about a year and a half. That was a proper healing time. Jumping straight back into friendship after a few months, I’m skeptical.”

“I would be friends with my ex after four years of relationship. Even then, I suspect something could have happened between us. I don’t know if I can be friends with my ex. Maybe friends with benefits, but just friends is a no for me.”

” I am friends with all my exes because they are my friends who know me well and have several years of history together. They are worth their weight in gold as confidants who know me well. I don’t understand wanting to walk away from that just because I used to have sex with the person. As long as you can maintain healthy boundaries, why throw away a good friend just because you used to date?”

“Some people are too valuable and cannot just be tossed aside, especially if the connection is on a much deeper level than the physical intimacy. There is a mutual understanding and appreciation that is rare to find. What’s the difference between a romantic and a platonic relationship? The physical intimacy. Why does everything else also have to be thrown out the window?”

That being said, there’s one ex with whom I am friendly. We don’t see each other or talk often. But when we meet, it’s always pleasant and a good time. And, of course, it helps we weren’t in touch with each other for years. Now he’s happily married, he has no interest in trying to “win me back” or whatever, and I have no interest in dating him again. So, for us, it’s pretty easy to be friends.

If you decide to be friends with your ex, then boundaries must be discussed and enforced. You cannot just observe how things go. Here are some things I would not do with my ex ever:
1. Go out to dinner with, or drink with, him one on one;
2. Discuss any aspect of my intimate life with him;
3. Go into detail or reminisce about our relationship together;
4. Discuss any problems or issues in my current relationship with him;
5. Give him advice on any of his relationships, etc;
There’s no right or wrong answer to this question. However, I am very curious to know your opinion on this. Can you ever truly be friends with your ex? Comment below :*

xo

Yachna

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August 19, 2024
Venus in Pisces: A Romantic Playlist

Hey everyone,

I’m super excited to kick off my zodiac-inspired playlist series! I’ve always been passionate about both zodiac signs and music, so curating playlists based on zodiacs is a dream come true for me.

I’m starting this series with a playlist inspired by my least favourite placement, Venus in Pisces. Having a Pisces Venus myself, I can tell you it’s not my top choice!

Being a Venus in Pisces means I’m a total softy. I always try to see the best in people and am willing to go the extra mile for my loved ones. However, I also tend to get a bit too dreamy and overly romanticize my relationships. It’s a lot of “empathy without boundaries is self-destruction.”

I love and struggle with having a Venus in Pisces because I tend to be a bit of an escapist, finding solace in books, movies, and anything else that can transport my mind to a whole new world.

So, this playlist is about embracing the magical symphony of romance, love, and fantasy, just like my Venus in Pisces placement.

I hope you enjoy this playlist as much as I do!

xo

Yachna

Are there any specific zodiac-inspired playlists you’d like me to create in the comments below?

P.S.

The 20 best Lana Del Rey’s greatest songs

August 16, 2024
How to Become a Morning Person

Some people aren’t just naturally morning people (myself included).

Being a night owl has been my natural rhythm for as long as I can remember. My most productive hours are late at night when everything is calm and quiet.

I’ve realized that, as much as I enjoy being a night owl, I equally hate the feeling of wasting my day away. There have been many days where I woke up at noon, and it always left me feeling a bit down because I felt like I was missing out on my mornings.

I used to have a messed-up sleep schedule from all my travelling, but now that I have finally settled down, I’m savouring a consistent routine.

Waking up at 7:30 a.m. and prioritizing eight hours of beauty sleep has become my new goal. If you want to become an early bird like me, it’s all about practice and a positive mindset.

Here are some tips that have truly made a difference in helping me embrace the morning-

1. Go to bed early—This tip goes without saying but set an earlier bedtime so you can have good hours of peaceful sleep and wake up feeling like a beautiful princess.

2. Keep your cell phone away from your bed. You’ll sleep better, and in the morning, it will also force you to hop out of your cozy sheets to turn your phone alarm off instead of snoozing.

3. Avoid hitting the snooze button. “Just ten more minutes” is a slippery slope. End of story.

4. Schedule a morning workout in your routine. One of the things that has worked best for me is scheduling a morning workout. Even if I am feeling lazy, I never skip it. It goes without saying that starting your day with exercise increases energy and improves productivity for the day.

5. Instead of leisurely lying around in the morning, jump out of bed when you wake up. I like to make my bed right away, which stops me from getting back in. Seeing my bed neatly made when I get home evokes the same feeling of taking a nice, deep, satisfying breath of fresh air. It has been a game-changer for me. It’s a little ritual I do to make coming back home feel extra nice.

6. Before you go to sleep, make a mental or physical checklist prioritizing your goals for the next day. This will help you wake up motivated to achieve that goal.

7. Draw your curtains back when you leave bed and let the natural light in first thing in the morning.

8. Stay Consistent. Remember that the habits you have now took years to form. Set reasonable goals and timelines to rewire them. It is not something that can happen in just a week or two.

9. Reward yourself. Take the time to celebrate the little wins. Whether you acknowledge them in your mind or jot them down, recognize and celebrate each small accomplishment. You totally deserve to feel proud of the progress you’re making towards a healthier lifestyle.

xo,

Yachna

What are some of your tips for becoming a morning person? I’d love to know in the comments.

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August 14, 2024
How To Maintain Friendships As An Adult

Last weekend, I attended my cousin’s baby shower, and it was absolutely fantastic!

I couldn’t wait to reunite with friends I hadn’t seen in over two years. So much had happened during that time—marriages, new babies, and engagements—there was just so much catching up to do.

Maintaining meaningful friendships can be challenging as we age. Meeting all my friends after so long made me nostalgic for those carefree days when we spent our days doing nothing together.

When I got home that night, I realized that adulting and responsibilities had replaced our spontaneous hangouts and carefree last-minute trips. I felt sad to see how much time and changed and with it the dynamic of relationships.

But no matter how busy we are, we must make time for healthy and meaningful connections to nourish our souls. Tight-knit connections are what make life worth living.

Although adult friendships are hard, it isn’t impossible with effort, thought, and intention. Here are some ways to make it work-

1) Keep in touch frequently. I understand how hard it can be to reach out, living in our capitalist society that demands our productivity around the clock. I usually text or call someone when I am thinking of them. A simple ‘Thinking of you, hope all is well’ goes a long way. Staying curious about their lives will make maintaining friendships easier. Another fun way to keep in touch is to have an active group chat to share opinions on various topics and memes.

2) Take the time to plan an in-person get-together. If you’re not a fan of phone conversations like me, setting a date to hang out in person can be a great way to keep in touch. Planning out the specifics of your get-together gives you both something exciting to anticipate and more reasons to stay connected.

3) Focus on quality over quantity. Even though you may not be able to speak or see each other as often as you’d like, make it a point to dedicate the time you do have together to creating new memories together.

4) Reciprocate the efforts. Nobody likes a one-sided friendship. Remember that everyone has responsibilities. Don’t let one person be the only one trying to maintain the connection.

5) Celebrate the milestones, remember the small things, and be available for the hard times. Surprise your friend on her birthday. Make an effort to be present for milestones such as weddings, graduations, baby showers, or any celebration. After all, it is said that the best friendships stand the test of time and the ups and downs of life.

6) Be honest. Ditch the silent treatment. Be open and honest in your communication. Don’t let petty misunderstandings get the best of your relationship. Create a safe space in your friendship to have difficult conversations openly and honestly without ruining the relationship dynamic.

7) Have patience, and be there for them. The different life stages my friends and I are going through are pretty incredible. Some are embracing parenthood, some are jet-setting for work, and others are hustling to make their startup dreams a reality. It’s like we’re living parallel lives, but when we catch up, it’s like no time has passed.

We understand and respect each other’s unique paths, which makes our bond even stronger. I understand that my friend with a newborn might not have time for long catch-up chats, and that’s okay. We adjust to our new role and support each other through the changes.

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Lastly, I wanted to share my all-time favourite video from Winnie the Pooh, which always brings tears to my eyes. It beautifully captures the sentiment of realizing that growing up often means having less time to simply relax and enjoy moments with our loved ones. It’s a reminder that these small, seemingly insignificant moments actually take up the most space in our hearts.

xo

Yachna

Do you have any tips on how to maintain adult friendships? I’d love to know in the comments 😀

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August 12, 2024
Topics To Avoid On A First Date

Let’s talk first dates!

They can be pretty awkward. You’re going out with someone you’ve only met for 5 or 10 minutes, or maybe not at all. It’s always a challenge to break the ice with someone you barely know. Personally, I don’t believe in keeping any topic limits because I value respectful, honest, and upfront communication.

When I want to discuss a potentially sensitive subject, I usually break the ice by asking, “Are we even allowed to talk about X on the first date?” It’s funny to see how people react, and it often leads to some really interesting conversations.

Of course, some topics are better left for later dates. Here are five topics to avoid on a first date:

1. Your Trauma/Trauma Dumping

Don’t talk to your date about your laundry list of trauma, years of therapy, and mental illness. It’s a date, not a therapy session. I am a mental health advocate and have gone through my fair share of trauma in life, but this isn’t something to discuss on a first date. Your date didn’t sign up to help you process this.

2. Exes

First dates are all about having a good time and keeping things lighthearted, fun, and cheerful. It’s best not to bring up any exes. Please don’t talk about how you hate your ex because he ruined your life and left you with trauma. Lastly, avoid generalizing an entire gender based on a negative experience.

Once you’ve established a connection with someone, there will be plenty of time to discuss these topics. If someone likes you, they’ll be open and accepting when the time is right. But dropping this on a first date is a huge turn-off immediately.

3. Politics

Politics can be a touchy subject that sometimes leads to disagreements or hurt feelings. It’s usually a good idea to steer clear of political discussions on a first date unless you are open-minded and respectful of each other’s beliefs.

One of my friends shared, ‘I like to know where my date stands politically. I usually find out before agreeing to go out because I wouldn’t want to date a Republican. What do you think?

4. Religion

Religion is a sensitive topic for many people, and it’s best, especially if you are not tolerant of other people’s beliefs and religion, not to bring up this topic on a first date.

5. Money

My friend was excited about this date with a woman he liked. They went to this fantastic restaurant with a sea view and had a great conversation until she dropped a bombshell.

She flat-out said, “I expect my man to pay for everything, and if this goes any further, I want you to provide for me and take care of my financial needs.” My friend was immediately turned off, and there was no second date after that.

Talking about money is a huge turn-off on a first date. It’s best to avoid this topic entirely unless your date brings it up first.

Lastly, it all depends on the date. Some people you immediately feel comfortable with, open up to and talk about anything and everything. Others you don’t feel comfortable with at all and prefer to keep the conversation on very casual topics such as travel, hobbies, food, and entertainment.

What would you rather not talk about on a first date? Let’s go in the comments 😀

xo,

Yachna

P.S.

Juicy questions to ask your date

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July 13, 2024
How to Feel Like A Princess

Did you ever want to be a princess?

As a child, I often dreamt of being a beautiful princess who was always pretty, going to fancy balls and wearing pretty princess dresses and tiaras.

Even though we can’t all be like Grace Kelly and marry a real-life prince. That doesn’t mean we don’t have what it takes to be a princess!

Being a princess isn’t just about having some fancy title, tiaras, or a grand palace (although I certainly wouldn’t complain)! But, it is about creating a life that embraces your inner princess and makes you feel regal and cherished.

Welcome to my guide on “how to feel like a princess.” Today on Sidewalks, we discuss 17 ways to live like the princess you already are.

Be a kind human

Being a princess goes beyond wearing a crown – it starts from within. It’s about being kind, caring, respectful, and pleasant to those around you. Show patience and kindness to everyone. And always remember to be humble and gracious.

Become the essence of elegance

Remember, elegance has hardly much to do with wealth. It’s about carrying yourself with grace, style, poise, and confidence. Talking loudly and swearing is a huge turn-off if you want to feel and be treated like a princess. Treating others with kindness and respect is the truest form of elegance.

Take the time to look fabulous at all times.

Always make sure to exude a magnetic charm in your aura. If you want to command attention, you have to dress the part. Can you honestly expect anyone to take a princess seriously if she’s wearing sweatpants and your appearance is poorly put together? Invest time in dressing well and choose stunning outfits that make you feel like royalty.

Eat energy-giving foods

Give yourself a bright start to the day with a delightful breakfast, and add some fruits, nuts, and avocados for that extra oomph. In the words of legendary Virginia Woolf, “One cannot think well, love well, sleep well if one has not dined well.”

Embrace personal growth

Treat yourself to solo adventures for self-discovery and devote time to hobbies and skills that nurture your personal development. Last summer, I spent two months living in NYC and enrolled in a scriptwriting workshop. It was a life-changing experience that pushed me out of my comfort zone. My advice to all the women reading this is to keep pushing yourself to grow, and you have the unlimited capacity to make your life anything you want.

Get Moving

Take regular long walks/hikes in nature, go for a refreshing swim in the pool, or channel your inner Pilates princess. The key is to carve out time for positive and healthy activities for your body.

Embrace royal etiquette

As a princess, taking etiquette seriously is essential. Carry yourself gracefully with poise and impeccable posture in any setting. Master the art of conversation by knowing which topics are suitable and which to avoid in public gracefully.

Don’t give up on your dreams, princess!

Remember, as a princess, the sky’s the limit, and no dream is too big for you. Always maintain a sense of motivation. It’s the secret to leading a fulfilling and happy life. A true, honest, beautiful princess dedicates herself to making her dreams come true and giving herself the best life can offer.

Freshen up the energy in your space

The first thing I love to do each morning when I wake up is to open my windows and light a candle or incense to sweep away any lingering negative vibes. This clears up the air, fills it with fresh and soothing aroma, and puts me in a positive mood.

Romanticize daily tasks

Savour your morning tea/coffee in your cherished teacup instead of a plain glass. Adorn yourself with lovely jewelry simply because it brings you joy. Let the delicate pieces you wear remind you that you deserve to feel special daily. Decorate your space with beautiful, soothing things that bring you peace and joy. Take time to admire and enjoy the little things within and around your home.

Keep it clean

Establish a daily beauty routine for cleaning your face, teeth, nails, lips, hands, and hair in the morning and at night. Make it fun by using colourful soaps or decorating them with cute stickers.

Always smell divine

Use scented lotion (nothing too strong that gives you a headache) and spray perfume before leaving the house. And remember to keep a travel-sized deodorant or perfume with you for quick touch-ups throughout the day!

Handle everything with grace

Even though you’re a princess, you’ve got to learn how to handle the inner Diva. There may be moments when you get mad, but you never want to get all Mean Girls and bitchy on someone. Remember: Classy always wins.

Learn to appreciate the finer things in life

To run with royalty, you must learn to appreciate the finer things in life. Become a jewellery connoisseur and learn about different artists and their works. For instance, you can learn about the works of pioneers such as Leonardo Da Vinci and Van Gogh. Or immerse yourself in the opera world. You get the point.

Indulge in a day of pure indulgence

Unwind with a relaxing massage, rejuvenate your skin with a luxurious facial, or treat yourself to any other spa treatment that pampers your body and soul. Take the time to relax and let the stresses of life melt away as you embrace the pure bliss of a luxurious spa day.

Surround yourself with beauty

Sprinkle your living space with vibrant fresh flowers, infuse the air with the scent of roses, and adorn your home with charming decorations. Surrounding yourself with beauty will whisk you into a world of relaxation and luxury.

Treat yourself to something extraordinary

Whether it’s a stunning piece of jewelry, a delightful indulgence, or a rejuvenating yoga retreat, pampering yourself with something unusual is a beautiful way to feel like a princess.

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Is there anything else you’d add to the list? How do you feel like a princess? I am curious to know. Comment below :*

xo,

Yachna

Art Credits- Pinterest

July 3, 2024
The Ultimate Guide To A Timeless Wardrobe

A few years back, my daily struggle began.

Picture this: it’s 6 am, and I’m getting ready for work. I stare at my wardrobe, feeling like it’s been hit by a tornado.

Do I have to battle with what to wear again?

The wardrobe is jam-packed. I can spot over 50 pieces of clothing without even opening a drawer. Clothes are scattered all over. I glance at my watch and realize that 40 minutes have passed, and I still don’t have an outfit.

This was a frequent occurrence. I’d often find myself in front of a closet full of clothes but with nothing to wear, despite regular shopping trips.

Sure, it’s not a life changer in the bigger scheme of things, but the stress can be so real.

Am I the only one??

As I’ve matured, I’ve chosen to approach shopping more mindfully. Instead of giving into the impulse to buy whatever catches my eye, I focus on purchasing things I genuinely need.

This shift has helped me avoid accumulating unworn items with price tags still attached, which I would later donate after a year.

Simplifying my choices is really important to me. Lately, I’ve naturally been drawn to effortlessly chic looks that not only make me feel good but also exude confidence.

So, in today’s post, we discuss building a wardrobe that reflects your style and needs without overspending or buying in excess. We are all about sustainability and repeating outfits here!!!

NOTE: I want to emphasize that this post is not sponsored. The recommended items are truly my favourite everyday essentials, and I do not receive any commission from them.

1. Functional Undergarments

a. The Lace Thong

As a woman, I never really got the lowdown on what kind of panties would be the best fit for me—you know, comfy, and that doesn’t show through clothing. After trying many options, the lace thong is my go-to winner and the most reliable choice. I’ve collected several in different colours, especially neutral tones, for practicality.

Where to Buy:

ANN SUMMERS- Sexy Lace Planet Thong

AERIE- Sunny Blossom Lace Thong

Where to Buy:

AERIE- Sunny Blossom Lace Thong

ANN SUMMERS- Sexy Lace Planet Thong

b. Bras

There are three essential bras that every woman should have in her wardrobe.

The Everyday Bra-

Behold the ultimate queen of all bras!

This is the one you’ll reach for every morning. Naturally, it’s got to be super soft and provide excellent support because it will be your go-to bra. Opt for a nude shade or grab at least four in neutral tones to ensure it doesn’t peek through your outfits. Sure, neutral bras might seem a tad boring, but they’re essential when it comes to function!

SKIMS

T-SHIRT BRA

A plunge bra-

Make sure you have the right bra for every outfit in your wardrobe. A plunge bra is essential for low-cut tops and dresses, offering a natural lift for your breasts.

SKIMS

Plunge Bra

Strapless bra/stick-on bra-

This versatile garment is a wardrobe essential. Whether paired with a boatneck sweater, a tube top, or a strapless dress, it’s all about finding the one that fits you just right and makes you feel comfortable and confident wearing it.

SKIMS

Strapless Bra

Where to Buy:

AERIE

NORDSTROM- Everyday Bra

SKIMS

MARKS & SPENCER- Stick-On Bra

2. Tank Tops

Tank tops are an absolute must-have in any wardrobe! Whether you’re aiming for a casual or more formal look, tank tops are incredibly versatile and can be paired with just about anything. This timeless piece of clothing has the power to tie together any ensemble.

SKIMS – Soft Lounge Tank

SKIMS- Cotton Rib Tank

Where to Buy:

SKIMS- Soft Lounge Tank

SKIMS- Cotton Rib Tank

3. The Plain White Tee

My signature style revolves around donning simple tees. I adore the versatility of a classic crisp white or neutral tee as it effortlessly complements almost every item in my wardrobe. Its simplicity makes styling and accessorizing a breeze.

REFORMATION- Classic Crew Tee

GAP- Organic Cotton Vintage Crewneck T-Shirt

Where to Buy:

REFORMATION- Classic Crew Tee

GAP- Organic Vintage Crewneck T-Shirt

4. The Relaxed Linen Shirt

I love linen shirts. They breathe beautifully in the summer and project an air of casual sophistication. However, remember that linen rumples and wrinkles all the time, and pressing it is not fun.

ARITZIA

Relaxed Linen Shirt

ARITZIA

Relaxed Linen Shirt

Where to Buy:

ARITZIA- Relaxed Linen Shirt

5. The Go-to Blue Jeans

When it comes to jeans, my golden rule is simple: they have to fit like a dream. Ill-fitting jeans are a major fashion faux pas!

A great pair of jeans is a wardrobe staple that can last for years and take any outfit to the next level. Plus, they’re so versatile that putting together a killer look is a breeze.

My personal favourites? High-rise, high-waist skinny jeans in light, medium, and dark wash. They’re effortlessly stylish and go with just about everything!

ARITZIA

The 90s High-Rise Cigarette Jean

ARITZIA

The Arlo High-Rise Straight Jean

Where to Buy:

ARITZIA- The 90s High-Rise Cigarette Jean

ARITZIA- The Arlo High-Rise Straight Jean

6. Pants

As I’ve gotten older, I’ve found myself reaching for pants over jeans more often. They’re just so cozy and versatile! About ten years ago, I picked up a few pairs from Uniqlo, and they’ve become my go-to choice. They go with everything and are super comfy, which is a big plus for me!

THE FRANKIE SHOP

Straight Tailored Pants

ARITZIA

Hudson Chino Pant

Where to Buy

THE FRANKIE SHOP- Straight Tailored Trousers

ARITZIA- Hudson Chino Pant

UNIQLO

7. Over-Sized Blazer

Just so you know, oversized blazers are a must-have for a hot girl!!

They effortlessly elevate any outfit, adding a touch of sophistication and style, even if you’re throwing something on in a hurry. They give off a polished, preppy vibe without much effort.

Where to Buy:

The Frankie Shop

FRANKIE OVERSIZED BOYFRIEND BLAZER

ETSY- The WildHoney Shop

90s ‘San Moire’ Floral Blazer Jacket

THE FRANKIE SHOP- Oversized Boyfriend Blazer

ETSY- Floral Blazer Jacket

ARITZIA

8. The Little Black dress

The perfect Little Black Dress continues to be every woman’s most sought-after fashion essential. At its classic best, the LBD is a symbol of empowerment and confidence for every woman. Dress it up, pare it down, and wear it forever—the LBD is a fashion essential.

MESHKI

Collared Suiting Mini Dress – Black

ARITZIA

Contour Mini Tube Dress

Where to Buy:

ARITZIA- Contour Mini Tube Dress

MESHKI- Collared Suiting Mini Dress

9. Cardigans

You can’t beat a classic. Their warmth and versatility make them a must-have for any wardrobe.

J. CREW

Featherweight cashmere shrunken cardigan sweater

GUEST IN RESIDENCE

EVERYWEAR CARDIGAN

Where to Buy:

J. CREW- Cardigan Sweater

GUEST IN RESIDENCE- Everywear Cardigan

10. Skirts

I adore skirts. My closet is brimming with skirts in a variety of styles. I prefer a pencil skirt for formal events and a black miniskirt for a night out. I absolutely love high-rise, fit-and-flare, or A-line midi skirts. They are easy to wear, accentuate my waist, and make my legs look longer. Additionally, they help conceal stomach bloating, which is always a plus.

Where to Buy:

REFORMATION

Layla Skirt

ARITZIA

Didi Pleated Skirt

Where to Buy:

REFORMATION- Layla Skirt

ARITZIA- Didi Pleated Skirt

11. Long Wool Coat

I have these in different colours like black and camel. They elevate my casual outfits, , so I wear them with everything in winter.

ZARA

EXTRA LONG FAUX SHEARLING COAT

ARITZIA

The Connor Long Coat

Where to Buy:

ZARA- Extra Long Faux Shearling Coat

ARITZIA- The Connor Long Coat

12. White sneakers

Because they go with everything and make your outfit look crisp.

J. CREW

Superga® women’s 2750 Cotu sneakers

Where to Buy:

J.CREW- Superga white sneakers

13. Black Heels/ Loafers

They go with all my formal wear.

CHARLES & KEITH

Metallic Accent Loafer Pumps

TED BAKER

Satin Bow Court Shoes

Where to Buy:

CHARLES & KEITH- Loafer Pumps

TED BAKER- Satin Bow Court Shoes

14. Ballet Flats

They’re comfortable, don’t hurt like stilettos, and can be worn all day long, the ballet flat is the reigning queen of shoes today.

MANOLO BLAHNIK

BB 10 leather point-toe flats

THE ROW

Ava leather Mary Jane ballet flats

Where to Buy:

MANOLO BLAHNIK- Ballet Flats

THE ROW- Mary Jane ballet flats

15. Jewelry

Wearing beautiful jewelry is like giving yourself a little reminder that you are amazing and that the day is special. There’s something about adorning yourself with jewelry that brings out your feminine energy. Invest in versatile pieces that make you feel beautiful and effortlessly elevate any outfit. Since everyone’s taste in jewelry is so unique, I have linked some sites that I love for everyday jewelry.

Where to Buy:

MEJURI

OAK AND LUNA

BONBONWHIMS

16. The Goes-With-Everything Belt

When selecting a belt, look for elegant buckles and high-quality, sleek leather for an understated yet sophisticated look.

RALPH LAUREN

Leather Wide Belt

Where to Buy:

RALPH LAUREN- Leather Wide Belt

17. A Classic Purse/Tote

THE ROW

Sofia 10 Leather Tote

CUYANA

Classic Easy Tote

Where to Buy

THE ROW- Sofia 10 Leather Tote

CUYANA- Classic Easy Tote

What about you? What are some of your wardrobe essentials? I’d love to know in the comments below <3

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P.S.

What to Wear For A Date Night

Featured Image- Pinterest

June 19, 2024
9 of Our Favourite Restaurants in Delhi

Delhi, or Dilli as the locals still call it, is a foodie’s paradise! You could spend your entire life exploring the city’s food scene and still find new gems every time.

With new restaurants, cafes, and bars popping up all the time, Delhi is a melting pot of cultures and cuisines. And let me tell you, as a food lover, it’s easy to get overwhelmed with all the options.

But don’t worry, I’ve got your back. Whether you’re a newbie or a seasoned pro, I am excited to share some of my favourite spots in Delhi that will have you coming back for more.

1. Capital Kitchen

They have some of the best chefs in the country, offering a variety of cuisines, including South Indian, Italian, regional and continental. Take your pick from their lavish menu; trust me, you won’t be disappointed. It adds to the whole ‘Taj’ experience and makes it even more awesome.

2. Kheer- Roseate House

You’ll feel like royalty as soon as you step into this place. The sophisticated atmosphere effortlessly combines the old with the new, creating an elegant and modern ambiance. And the menu? A true masterpiece! The signature Kheer tasting sampler is an absolute must-try. Trust me, you won’t regret it!

3. Olive Bar & Kitchen

Olive Bar and Kitchen is an absolute gem! The atmosphere is fantastic, and the food is simply divine. The unique European vibe and the all-white decor are a stunning visual treat. It’s perfect for a romantic night out, a fancy business dinner, or drinks with friends.

4. The Big Chill Cafe

I have been to The Big Chill Cafe many times and have never been disappointed. Whether you’re craving pasta, salads, or desserts, every bite is a delightful experience. It is a must-visit spot for anyone looking for a memorable dining experience in Delhi.

5. Dolma Aunty Momo’s

A legendary spot for street food enthusiasts, especially known for its mouthwatering momos!!!

6. Diggin Cafe

Every bite is a testament to the restaurant’s commitment to using only the freshest and highest quality ingredients. And if that’s not enough, the outdoor seating area is an absolute delight, especially during evenings when the ambiance is mesmerizing. Get ready for an unforgettable dining experience that will leave you wanting more!

7. Moti Mahal

What an incredible coincidence! My friends and I were on our way to another restaurant, but our stomachs were growling, and we spotted this place. Little did we know it would turn out to be a hidden gem! The staff, who I’m guessing have been there for ages, showered us with so much warmth and hospitality! You must try their butter chicken and garlic naan – they were out of this world!

8. Wenger’s

The oldest bakery in the country, situated in the heart of the nation’s capital, is a favourite of every Delhite. With a reputation that has stayed intact over the years, Wenger’s is all about tradition and taste. The pastries and snacks melt in your mouth!

9. Ottimo at West View

A rooftop restaurant of ITC Maurya with great views has both indoor and outdoor dining options. The food is delicious, and the service is exceptional. We loved the pasta, a slice of heaven, and the orange cake for dessert.

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We hope you enjoy these mouth-watering recommendations <3 Feel free to add your favourites to the list 😀

xo

Yachna

P.S.

A Foodie’s Guide to Calgary

Featured Image Credits- Conde Nast

May 13, 2024