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How to Live A Magical Life

Hello Readers!

Have you ever wished your life was more… magical, dreamy, and euphoric?

Real life can be bland and boring. Nothing is exciting about following the same monotonous routine: waking up, eating breakfast, grind all day, commute home, watch Netflix and then doing it all over the next day.

We never received a Hogwarts attendance letter on our 11th birthday. Hogwarts’ secret corridors, moving staircases, glamorous balls, robes and endless feasts. It certainly made our muggle schools seem incredibly dull and lacking in… well, magic. Neither did we ever meet talking rabbits or grinning Cheshire cats. But still, we want to believe in the possibility of magic, or at least, I do.

So, in no particular order, here are some ways to sprinkle magic in your life. I hope these resonate with you and help you to add magic to your everyday life.

1. Gratitude.

I read somewhere, “When you are grateful, fear disappears, and abundance appears. Write three things you are thankful for. Somedays, it can be really difficult to come up with something. On days like that, look around and appreciate the little things, such as a healthy and happy family & friends, a cozy home, good food, and music. By appreciating the seemingly small things, you sprinkle magic into your daily life and make space for more magic.

2. Reconnect with your inner child and keep playing.

Grind all day. Commute home. Watch TV. Go with the flow. Follow the crowd. Do what’s expected. Or, take up a new hobby that makes your heart sing. Sign up for that pottery or makeup class, and have fun with it. You’re never too old to be who you wanna be or try something new for the first time. Always stay curious, even if you’re an adult. Play keeps your soul young.

3. Be in nature.

Nature is one of the most magical places. Swim naked in the sea. Channel a mermaid. Plan a picnic in your local park. Take a trip to the mountains. Magic is constantly happening in nature. Watch the magnificent sunset melt into the sky and feel the morning sunlight greet your mind, body, and soul with warmth and positivity.

4. Find your soul tribe.

Friends are an essential part of our lives. When you connect with like-minded souls, there is an energy and vibration that is magical and contagious. Having strong and meaningful friendships not only changes lives, but it has the power to change the world. Everyone deserves wonderful lifelong friendships and the unforgettable memories that comes with it!

5. The magical touch of kindness.

Life becomes easier and more beautiful when you are kind to yourself as well as the other people. We are all beautifully unique and miraculous. We need to recognize our self-worth and celebrate who we are. The day we treat ourselves with the kindness and love that we deserve is the day the world will become a much more loving, peaceful place.

6. Embrace Solitude.

Something strange and wondrous begins to happen when we embrace time in solitude, in the company of nature, far from the deafening judgment of the human world and its opinions. Use solitude as a tool for personal growth, a source of motivation and inspiration for career endeavours, or to enhance your relationship with the people around you.

7. Infuse your life with love.

Love is a magical feeling. The more I live through life, the more I realize how important it is to see everything through the eyes of love. I have realized that when I infuse the energy of pure, unconditional love into everything that I am and do, the more magic I unlock in my life. Give love. Share love. Speak love. It’s the highest vibration you can feel, and from that place, amazing opportunities and high-value experiences emerge. Love is magic.

8. Be present.

The most magical time I have is doing an activity with my little nephew. It’s mesmerizing to watch the light shining from his soul as he’s immersed in his current activity. Kids have no sense of the past or future, so they bring their awareness into the present moment. If you find yourself constantly worried or stressed, take up meditation. This is the app that I use for my daily meditation.

Since we are all so different, please share how you sprinkle magic into your daily life. I’d love to know in the comments below <3

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November 2, 2023
11 Winter Beauty Essentials

Hello beauty lover, missed ya!

How we’ve missed you. But not to worry, we are back and better than ever.

Starting you off with our top 10 beauty must-haves! For winter, as we transition into those freezing temperatures, you need all the right products in your kit to help you forget those winter blues while looking your best!

So take a look at these awesome picks with us and find something you will definitely want to try out for yourself!

1. Clinique Moisture Surge 100H Hydrator.

With Winter right around the corner. I know. Sorry for the reminder.

But you will need a solution to all that dryness that comes with it, and what better way to do that than with the Clinique Moisture Surge 100H hydrator?

This baby locks in your skin’s moisture with 100 hours of hydration! With the cold weather coming quick, this couldn’t be a better moisturizer for dry, flaky skin, and it helps prep your skin flawlessly!

2. Uriage Thermal Water Spray.

Another new skincare find that my skin has been thermal water sprays. I personally have been loving the Uriage Thermal Water Spray.

This spray helps to restore the skin’s barrier, thanks to its mineral salts. So, if you have dry, sensitive, combination, or even normal skin, it will thank you whenever you use this spray!

3. E.L.F Power Grip Primer

Next, a good primer! E.L.F Power Grip Primer + 4% Niacinamide to be exact.

This vegan primer gives you all the staypower to grip your makeup while giving you skincare benefits simultaneously!

With that Niacinamide, you get a smooth and brighter complexion even with makeup on top. How cool is that?

In general, e.l.f has some excellent primer options, but for the Fall and winter time… keep this one on your radar!

4. Super Stay Vinyl Ink Longwear Liquid Lip by Maybelline

Okay, so next, let’s check out a perfect Fall lippy… or two!

You must already know about this one beauty lover. Of course, it is the TikTok viral lip by Maybelline and the Super Stay Vinyl Ink Longwear Liquid Lip. Specifically in the colour “Fearless.”

If you want a no-budge formula that lasts up to 16 hours, look no further!

This purple-brown shade is very vampy and perfect for a fearless gal (no pun intended). So, if you are daring and love a bold lip, you must try this one!

5. Chili & Diva Lipsticks by M.A.C

I just have to add these two lipsticks from M.A.C Cosmetics that truly scream wintertime. Chili and Diva are staples from M.A.C and just the perfect lip for this season.

Chili is that burnt orangey-red shade that many skin tones will be able to pull off. It goes in beautifully and is a classic matte formula; however, it isn’t drying.

Next, Diva… a warm-toned dark burgundy for the bold! This is a shade you WILL get compliments on. It gets you noticed in all the right ways. You look timeless in this shade, a favourite for the Fall and Winter.

6. Major Dimension III Matte Eyeshadow Palette by Patrick Ta

Let’s play up the eyes! Major Dimension III Matte Eyeshadow Palette by Patrick Ta has been on everyone’s list, and here’s why!

With ten incredible matte powder shades and two cream shades to layer with the powders, it gives luxury and more. Patrick Ta puts quality into his products, and it shows.

His palettes always impress, and this one is no different. And it is definitely worth being on your radar this season to achieve that perfect smokey or natural eye look!

7. Jean Paul Gaultier Divine Perfume

I bet you’re looking for your perfect scent for the winter. Am I right?

If you haven’t had a chance to get a whiff of the Jean Paul Gaultier Divine Perfume… you need to. You are immediately met with notes of lily and jasmine before settling into patchouli and musk.

Ladies, if you want a scent that gets you noticed in a room and has people ask, “What perfume are you wearing”? This is that perfume for you. It is a balance of musk and sweetness in a bottle that has you embodying femininity. A must-try!

8. Velvet Rose & Oud Cologne Intense

A forever favourite!!!

This is your scent if you’ve ever wanted to smell like a powerful and sophisticated femme. I would wear this for a night out, like a fancy club or a night at the opera. It gives off “old money” vibes and lasts ages. Even though it’s a bit more expensive, it’s definitely worth it.

9. NYX Zero To Brow Liquid Eyebrow Gel

What’s Fall without a bold brow… I like to say.

Well, maybe I haven’t said that, but you need some good a** brows in your life! NYX Zero To Brow Liquid Eyebrow Gel has been a new try recently, and let me tell you, it did not disappoint!

The unique applicator made it easy to paint on some brows and get out the door. A little goes a long way with this one, so apply caution before you end up with sharpie brows… nobody wants that, or maybe that works for you.

Either way, try this baby out next time you hunt for a new brow product!

10. Melrose Place Gentle Body Wash by OUAI

Okay, now for some fun in the shower! Too much? Sorry, sorry, got too excited.

But let me put you on a yummy body wash that will leave your skin invigorated with moisture and smelling like a fresh bouquet of roses. What a great combination!

Melrose Place Gentle Body Wash by OUAI is a shower must-have. This cleanses without stripping the skin or leaving residue. Combined with Rosehip Oil, Vitamins A and C, and Jojoba Oil, all work to hydrate and brighten the skin while giving you scents of lychee rose and jasmine.

Ready to take a shower? I know I am.

11. Amika Soulfood Nourishing Hair Mask

I can imagine that hair is feeling dry from these temperatures dropping. Not to worry! I have the perfect solution: Amika Soulfood Nourishing Hair Mask. A rich hydrating mask packed with vitamins that moisturizes, softens, and smooths the hair. And the smell, oh my gosh, it is incredible! If you haven’t tried this mask, you need to give it a shot if you want that luscious, soft, and great-smelling hair!

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So, beauty lover, will you try any of these? I hope you do, and just might find the perfect Winter pairing you’ve been waiting for! Can’t wait to see you again to give you more beauty must-haves, so stay tuned for upcoming posts you will not want to miss.

See you next time, beauty lover.

Xoxo

Chantel

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October 23, 2023
Why We Are Lonely

I once read that the worst pain isn’t the kind everyone can see clearly- wailing on street corners and tearing at clothes. No, the worst kind happens when your soul weeps; no matter what you do, there’s no way to comfort it.

To me, this is what loneliness feels like.

Moving to a new city, stuck in an unfulfilling job, depression, social anxiety, low self-esteem, and no friends.

Sometimes it’s none of those things, and sometimes it’s all of those things. Sometimes, it’s brief. Sometimes, it’s more long-lasting. Sometimes, it makes sense, and sometimes, it doesn’t make any sense at all.

Loneliness is not an easy thing to describe. I can barely even explain it to myself. It’s unique to each person, which is why it is so complicated.

While researching this topic, I looked up the term loneliness; the first thing that popped up was “sadness because one has no friends or company.”

That’s not entirely true. It wasn’t in my case, at least for me.

It was around the time when I was surrounded by people almost constantly.

For instance, after spending hours at a dinner party, I return home exhausted, overwhelmed and depressed, which is absolutely nobody’s fault. But then, after spending a day or two in silence, reading, writing, and going for long walks, I feel better again.

In recent years, I have been stuck in this paradox where, deep inside, I wanted to socialize and hang out with friends, but quickly, my social battery gets empty, and I feel alone.

I take a few days for myself. And then, if I’m just a bit more alone than I need, I start feeling this deep loneliness that I feel is tearing me apart. It’s a strange feeling.

From my experience, constantly being lonely is not just what you feel; it’s what you become. You are trapped inside the bubble of your thoughts and feelings and accept that state of mind as your home.

A few years ago, while working nine-to-five, I was surrounded by people I couldn’t deeply connect with. I soon realized I wanted to work for myself rather than for someone else. But I still needed to figure out clearly what I wanted to do.

Naturally, I started feeling disconnected from the people, my surroundings and worse, from myself. It doesn’t mean anything was wrong with those people or with me.

It’s just that I wasn’t fully living a life aligned with what I truly wanted to do. I know that might sound cliché and cheesy, but sometimes, you realize those things after you’ve invested so much of yourself in them.

Even though I desperately wanted to quit the job, another part of me felt I should be grateful. After all, I was doing exactly what I always envisioned myself to do.

These things happen. Sometimes, we spend years doing something only to realize that this is different from what we want to be doing.

Don’t beat yourself up for it. After all, we’re just human beings.

We grow, learn, change, and that’s just life. It’s never too late to be who you want to be and live the way you want to live.

Now that I am out of that dark phase, I can see things clearly. You know, like when you’re in an unhealthy relationship and can see only after you’re out.

Before I share my thoughts on what happened between then and now and what I learned, I want to clarify that I am no therapist.

I’m just someone sharing my experience in the hopes of someone finding something valuable, and even if you don’t, that’s fine.

Anyway, here’s what I learned during my low phase:

I was around people out of convenience than people who truly aligned with me. I learnt that if you don’t spend time with yourself, introspecting, you go along with whatever life throws at you instead of being the leader of your life.

I recently came across a quote, “All of humanity’s problems stem from man’s inability to sit quietly in a room alone.”

Before, I would go along with people or even choose to be with whatever people out of fear of loneliness.

When I took the time to become friends with my inner world, I found a lot of answers and understood why I am the way I am, what my core values and morals are, what brings me joy and what doesn’t.

So, understanding yourself makes understanding others easier. This welcomes the opportunity for a genuine human connection, one of life’s most meaningful and fulfilling relationships.

Some people don’t care about getting to know themselves and will do fine; everyone is different.

We may not even realize it, but the script we follow is not our own. The degree we choose, getting married by a certain age, the partner we pick, or how we spend our money. We try to please others at the expense of our own pleasure.

Whether that expectation is from society or within your family, we are taught to follow the crowd rather than the music of our hearts.

It’s like people who throw big fat weddings with a bunch of people who they don’t even really care about and who don’t care about them.

They don’t even really enjoy themselves because they’re not doing what they want to be doing but rather doing it to prove something to themselves or others.

That’s not what I call fulfillment in reality.

So, if you don’t explore more of your inner world, you’ll get dragged along in life. You will end up in places where you don’t want to be, with people whose company you don’t enjoy, which will lead you to feel like you don’t belong, which might end up making you feel lonely.

So, instead of letting life lead you, be the fierce leader of your life.

Lastly, please keep in mind that everyone’s experience is different. There’s no right or wrong way to feel lonely. If you feel lonely, you are lonely. And that’s okay.

I would love to read about your experience and share some tips I’m sure others would, so feel free to share your stories in the comments below. I am sending you a big hug if you are going through this right now.

Thank you so much for being here and reading.

xo,

Yachna

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October 18, 2023
Inside The Met’s Karl Lagerfeld Exhibit: A Line of Beauty

During one of his many visits, Tommy Hilfiger asked Karl Lagerfeld, “Karl, how did you become so successful with Chanel?”

Lagerfeld replied, “I went to the archives, and everything Coco Chanel had done in the past, I made it relevant for today.”

Years later, Tommy Hilfiger used that philosophy to reinvent his legendary brand. He brought out all the greatest hits and made them relevant for today. It worked.

After Coco Chanel died in 1971, Chanel lost much of its prestige. It started declining in the late Sixties as she became older, making the brand boring and bougie.

Enter Karl Lagerfeld; he completely revolutionized the brand by creating a blueprint that’s still being followed. He brought Chanel effortlessly into the 21st century with rigour and burning passion.

All designers have a cycle of creativity. For very few of them, it lasts more than 20 years. Lagerfeld kept going for 60 — that’s huge. And that’s what makes him so legendary.

He was the first designer with pioneering success, creating an unforgettable legacy for brands that didn’t carry his name, such as Chloé, Fendi, and Chanel, creating a diverse and prolific body of work unparalleled in fashion.

As a tribute to the legend, the Met Museum curated a fabulous Karl Lagerfeld Exhibition, “A Line of Beauty,” in New York. I was one of the lucky ones who got to see the exhibit on its last day.

Approximately 150 pieces were beautifully displayed, accompanied by Lagerfeld’s sketches—a fitting tribute to Karl Lagerfeld, whose prolific creations spanned two centuries.

I spent hours marvelling at his extraordinary and prolific creations that went straight from his sketches to the catwalk. It is said that Lagerfeld could draw before he could walk or talk. In many ways, it was his primary form of communication.

So, at its heart, the exhibition looked at the evolution of Karl’s sketches into garments worn on the runway. And what’s fascinating to have discovered: I always thought his drawings were spontaneous and free. But they were, in truth, extremely precise and mathematical.

We couldn’t see it because we are not trained professionals, but his premiers knew down to the inches what each line meant. It was like a secret code, a language shared between him and the heads of his ateliers.

Hats off to all the talented and skillful seamstresses who successfully manifested those designs from mere paper sketches into beautiful, precise and well-made pieces of clothing.

His passion spoke to me and opened my eyes to see that fashion, made with the right vision…is actually art!! Who knew fashion could be this beautiful?

Looking at the never-ending collection, one could get whiplash walking around the exhibition, trying to catch a glimpse at the hundreds of ensembles on display.

During the exhibition, admiring his body of art, it was evident he changed the course of fashion with his pioneering vision, extraordinary talent, and creative genius, leaving a remarkable legacy as one of our time’s greatest and most prolific designers.

I could go on and on about Karl’s extraordinary and prolific talents. I’ll let some of the pictures that I took from the exhibition do all the talking-

What an amazing talent and wonderful exhibition! What are some of your favourite looks? Let us know in the comments below.

Until next time.

xx

Yachna

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October 2, 2023
My Beauty Cocktail: Aayushi Pathania

Fashion designer Aayushi Pathania has always loved fashion. “My partner spotted this ability (designing) in me after seeing me creating many of my wedding outfits. And he encouraged me to start my own label.” Here, she shares her favourite sunscreen, one book everyone must read, and the best thing to do after a bad day…

Creative expression can take many forms. What made you decide to start your fashion brand?

Right from high school, I was often appreciated for my styling and clothing choices. My friends looked up to me to give them style advice. I was happily a personal shopper for many. So it’s an inbuilt skill polished finely over the years. My partner spotted this ability in me after seeing me designing many of my wedding outfits. And he encouraged me to start my own label. Then the encouragement was also followed by my old friends who have known me for years. I worked with Burberry in London, which made me realize I have an eye for detailing. I learnt a great deal about fashion, clothing, and non-apparel from there.

As a designer, can you create anything you can imagine?

That’s the beauty of it. With the right set of people, yes, you can create anything you can imagine. We help our clients put life to the designs in their imagination; although it’s a long process but totally worth it.

Your designs have a strong sense of femininity, from the designs to the fabrics, that feels empowering and strong. Can you talk about what goes into creating your garments?

The process is hard, time-consuming and takes lots of effort, but the outcome is super satisfying, knowing that this garment has contributed to many households and livelihoods.

The process includes designing, sampling, creating, recreating right from imagining, picking inspiration and fabric, and choosing the right material for handwork. We have many skilful artisans involved in making one garment. Our fabrics and materials are sourced; a minimum of 2-3 artisans do hand embroidery on it, the master who cuts the garment and a karigar who will then stitch the same. After, a lady usually checks for the quality and puts other small detailing like fringes and tassels if the garment requires that. The garment is then packed and shipped.

From where do you find the inspiration for the prints?

Inspiration for prints comes from my surroundings, From nature, modern art, sunsets, and travel. I am a big sucker for nature and travel. I travel a lot, giving me a bigger platform to observe, learn and recreate.

What story are you telling about the women who wear your designs?

The women who wear our designs are happy, confident and content as they stand out in the garments, which are handmade, beautiful, unique and timeless. They are modern independent women whose personality is reflected through the attire they have adorned. They are filled with the sense of happiness that they have given something back to society, knowing that their purchase encourages handmade and hand embroidered, helping keep this beautiful art of hand embroidery alive.

Could you select one or two looks that have special meaning for you?

A look for a new bride wearing a hand embroidered full flare perfect red anarkali suit feeling beautiful, happy and festive. She is loved and complimented all the time. This look has a special meaning for me as it makes anyone who wears it happy and confident and gives us immense happiness to be a part of their big moment. The bridal pieces are timeless and gorgeous.

What is the biggest lesson that you have learned since you started your label?

The biggest lesson that I have learnt is that it’s important to be passionate about what you do. Because then it never feels like work, and you always enjoy it.

How would you define slow fashion?

Timeless designs that are made to be worn for many years. Sometimes pieces are passed on to the next generation. Throughout creating the garment, we respect the artisans’ environment and animals. For my label, we use high-quality fabrics and materials so that the garment has more life and is easily repairable. Sustainable processes and fabrics emphasize the art of garment making and celebrate the skills of craftspeople and artisans. Made-to-order to reduce excessive production, we create classic, timeless pieces.

What’s inspiring you in life right now?

It’s a funny confession, but Instagram is inspiring me right now! I see so many girls/ women doing wonders with their lives, and in any field you see, you will. Find someone or the other building a good life following their passions and dreams—more power to everyone out there.

How do you define beauty?

Beauty is when there is humbleness and kindness in one. When you are truly confident in yourself, that is beauty. Because if someone is pleasing-looking to the eye but rude to others, that is not beautiful to me.

Best beauty/style advice you’ve received?

Less is more. Be comfortable in your own skin.

How would you define your style in three words?

Chic, sophisticated and classic.

How do you relax after a long day stressful day?

Comfort food and a happy/light conversation or some Netflix. I like to stay at home.

Your go-to for having a good laugh?

My elder sister. She cracks me up big time, any day—my personal entertainer since day 1.

How do you practise self-care?

Eat healthy, be grateful, drink water, sleep, exercise, stay close to nature, and keep your loved ones closer and tell them what they mean to you.

What’s your wake-up ritual?

I like to start my day with warm water, honey, and lemon.

What’s your go-to bed ritual?

I spend some time in front of my mirror brushing my teeth, washing my face, and applying my vit c and night cream. All while listening to some soft music. I usually add a little prayer before I sleep.

Walk us through your daily skincare ritual.

I cleanse my face. Then, I use the Cellular Refining Lotion by La Prairie as a toner. I follow it up with a Minimalist Vitamin C serum for glowing-looking skin. For moisturizing, I use the Ceramide & Hyaluronic Acid Moisturiser from Re’equil. And I swear by sunscreen. It’s the most important one for your skin. I love eye masks which I occasionally use during late evenings.

A book that everyone should read?

There are many, but everyone should read The Secret by Rhonda Byrne because it helps you answer your ifs and whys. It helps you think positively and shows you the power of manifestation.

Vintage or new?

Classic with a pinch of modern in it.

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I have many, to name a few – my first one ever was Blaire Waldorf from Gossip Girls. I also have always admired Audrey Hepburn and Bella Hadid.

Favourite piece of clothing you own?

It’s very difficult to choose one! I love them all, especially the ones that I made.

Must-have clothing item everyone should have?

A comfortable piece of denim

Drugstore makeup or designer?

Designer!! The quality is great for your skin and eyes. Own less but own quality when it comes to makeup.

Lipstick or lip gloss?

A matte lipstick.

Favourite perfume?

Dior – hypnotic poison.

Your daily affirmation?

I have a healthy body, a tranquil mind and a peaceful soul. I am happy, and I am grateful. I attract positive things, and I am God’s child.

Thank you so much, Aayushi! ( Psst- Keep an eye out on Aayushi’s cool fashion and travel content here. )

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June 27, 2023
How to Cope with Blah Days

Have you had those days when you’re not depressed but not excited?

All the days feel the same. It’s been over a week, and I can’t seem to shake this feeling away. Something’s a bit off, but I don’t know why or what it is. I am not depressed, exactly, but not excited about life. I am distracted and not very motivated, even though I have a million things on my list that need to be done.

Experience has taught me that if I don’t take steps to address this mysterious unknown feeling blah feeling, then it snowballs into a massive depressive state which seems impossible to come out from. The key is to put yourself in a better headspace so you can more easily cope with this strange feeling.

Here are a few things that I have been doing to cope with this kind of day or even turn it around.

1. Recognize that it’s a feeling and our moods, like waves go up and down. Shrug your shoulders, chin up, wear your favourite lipstick, and choose to make it through the day. Nothing’s wrong, and there is nothing wrong with you. It’s just the way you’re feeling-and; our feelings usually change.

2. Don’t be hard on yourself. Don’t beat yourself up for feeling blah, and miserable. Be patient, gentle, kind, and understanding with yourself. You’re no worse than others, as we ALL have blah days.

3. Do something rather than nothing. Do a few mindless tasks so you don’t just waste the day, and you’re likely to feel better and slightly productive once you’ve got those out the way, as they’re usually the things you never want to do!

4. Only do as much as you have to. Somedays, it takes all your strength just to make it through the day. Preserve your energy. Read that book, watch that show, take a cozy nap and allow some things to slide. You can always get to them another day.

5. Be extra nice to yourself. One of the best ways to fight a dull cloudy day is to be extra loving to yourself and do the things that lift your mood and brighten your day. For example, go for a dessert, treat yourself to something relaxing, watch a show or a movie, have a long bubble bath, turn up your favourite music, eat your favourite meal, or call a loved one. Do all the kinds of things that you know will boost your mood.

6. Get outside. Take a half-hour walk out in nature to lift your energy and take your mind off everything.

7. Cultivate inner love. Practise solitude. Have a sufficient amount of alone time. Sign up for yoga. Write in your journal, and meditate for at least 20 minutes. Bringing this calm stillness will do wonders for your soul.

8. Watch a comedy show. Laughter is the best medicine. Watch your favourite stand-up, go through your favourite meme account, listen to a comedy podcast, or watch funny videos to get that dose of belly laughter.

xo

Yachna

What do you do to get over your blah days? Let us know in the comments < 3 If you’re going through one right now, sending you warm hugs :*

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Exquisite dreamy artwork from Pinterest

June 23, 2023
5 Things She Wants From You

We’re excited to kick off the first installment of our new pleasure column. In the blog posts that follow every Monday, we’ll provide a cliff note version of everything you need to know to make the woman (or women) in your life extremely happy and satisfied. Think of these mini-posts as your Lover-in-a-Box Kit on a count of five.

Starting off with the question that have plagued the greatest philosophers to have ever lived. “Why don’t men know what women want? Is it really that hard to figure it out?” Well no. If you ask women what they want…especially in bed, we’ll tell you exactly what we need. Here goes five things every woman wants from you-

1) Attuned Giving

Let your focus and direction be leavened by awareness and attunement. Initiate and direct not by dominating and going where you want, but by paying attention to her signals and taking her where she wants to go. Give her exactly what she wants when she wants it by using your attention and presence in service to her pleasure. (Ultimately, her complete surrender to opening is exactly where you want to go, too!)

2) Your presence

If you don’t show up, who’s that guy having sex with her? Your presence in the moment with her will bring more magic to your time together.

3) Clean, clear intentions and integrity

Don’t degrade yourself or her by manipulating or lying to her. Know what you want and speak your truth to her. If all you want is hot sex with no commitment, that’s okay- tell her. That might be what she wants, too!!

4) Reliability and direction

Women are just like the moon. Similar to lunar energy, women are shifting and have several phases. They need a “solar” partner with reliable, powerful masculine energy that doesn’t blow away with the wind. Instead, she wants someone that can be counted on to provide clear focus and attention. You’re her solid centre; she dances around it. Bring it on!

5) Your fiery hot studly masculine energy

Be that demon lover, guys, but only when she’s really ready and basically begging for it. You’ll know when it happens 😉

Do you have any words of advice you’d like to add? Or questions you’d like us to answer in future columns? Please let us know in the comments. xo

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June 19, 2023
15 of the Best Red Lipsticks of All Time

Eyeshadow is cool, as is mascara, but no makeup product holds my heart like lipstick. On those weird days when my face looks tired or just off somehow, lipstick is my saving grace. When I have five minutes to get ready in the morning, a bright red lip is the first thing I grab. It’s my version of having a basic white tee with blue jeans. When I’m in a bad mood, a vibrant, bold red turns that right around. I always carry red lipstick in my bag to make myself more beautiful.

So here is a list of some amazing red lipsticks and formulas you will want to consider on your next hunt for the best red lippy!

MAC Ruby Woo

Starting off with the classic MAC Ruby Woo, such a classic, especially for a newbie to red lips. Being my personal first try at red lipstick, you cannot go wrong with this one. Considering it is a matte formula, it will last you all day!

Lancôme L’absolu Rouge Cream Lipstick

With a red for every desired look, this has to be one of the most luxurious reds I’ve tried, and with the packaging that comes with it. The sheen and pigment this lipstick gives off are incredible! You feel expensive with this lipstick on you; a must-try for sure!

Maybelline New York Color Sensational Lipstick

Don’t underestimate a drugstore red lipstick, though; Maybelline New York Color Sensational Lipstick in “Red For Me” is made to suit every skin tone. With the colour tested on 50 different skin tones, it is tailored for everyone; again, for a beginner, you will love this!

Revlon Super Lustrous Lipstick

Sticking to budget-friendly, Revlon Super Lustrous Lipstick has an array of red shades in the line, and you will surely find something you will love. This formula packs a punch on pigmentation. However, it can be applied sheer for the first layer and for those looking for a more sheer red. With the lipstick infused with Vitamin E and Avocado oil, your lips will not be mad at you!

YSL Rouge Pur Couture

Okay, back to a bit more boujee, the YSL Rouge Pur Couture line is… glamorous AF. You will not be disappointed by these reds; these will have heads turning and people asking, “What lipstick are you wearing?” If it’s anything, Yves Saint Laurent, you will get noticed with those lipsticks, and I love that for you!

Fenty Stunna Lip Paint

Onto a liquid red! Fenty Stunna Lip Paint in Uncensored. Wow, who remembers when she came out with this red? This was flying off the shelves, and of course, like all her products, she really did that. As it suggests, this is the perfect universal red with a weightless soft-matte finish, and did I mention long-lasting? This is yummy to have on your lips and rarely requires re-application.

Dior Rouge Forever Liquid Transfer-Proof Lipstick

Need I say more? Luxury at its finest, as the name tells you already… it doesn’t budge, feather, or settle into fine lines. You’re getting that smooth, comfortable and intense colour that’s gonna last 12 hours. With that pointy doe foot applicator, you can use it with or without a lip liner… this liquid lipstick will have you saying, “J’adore Dior!”

The Atomic Shake Long Lasting Liquid Lipsticks

Onto Haus Labs by Lady Gaga! I see a trend here with the liquid lips, but I’m not complaining! She has three reds to choose from in this line. However, my fave is the Cherry Shine, a true red. Now, with this liquid lip, you have to allow it time to set is the main thing when using this line; after allowing it to set onto your lips, it will not move all day! Need I say more?

MAC’s Chilli

A bit of a different tone of red… MAC’s Chilli, a brownish orange-red. One of my all-time favourites from MAC. Honestly, this is the shade for fall time, and paired with a beautiful eyeshadow look or even just a bare eye, you get noticed with this lip. It is a mature look; I feel like a *señorita* in this lip. If you haven’t tried this unique red yet, please do!

Glossier Ultralip High Shine Lipstick

For my shy girlies, who want to dabble with a red lip but don’t want so much pigment, I got you! Glossier Ultralip High Shine Lipstick in Watermelon Red would be a good way to have a sheen to the lips but not so bold, with pigment giving you more of a lip tint finish, with several great ingredients in there, like hyaluronic acid, jojoba seed oil, etc. You will get all the moisture of a balm and a beautiful colour to go with it!

Make Up For Ever Rouge Artist

Make Up For Ever Constantly On Fire is a lovely classic red. The major seller for this liquid lip is the staying power and the amazing smooth feeling on the lip, but the applicator! Those round edges and flat surfaces quickly fill in all the edges and lines of the lip, making it so effortless and seamless for application and with just one swipe, you get all the pigment you need. 10/10!

GXVE By Gwen Stefani

Of course, for someone who is always rocking a red lip, it only makes sense she made one of her own! The colour Original Recipe is her true red, a clean and cruelty-free lipstick. A lot of people love this one! With a velvety-matte finish and high colour payoff, you cannot go wrong with this red and not to mention the packaging from her line is amazing!

Nars Powermatte Long-Lasting Lipstick

My pick from this fantastic line is Dragon Girl. One swipe coverage and gives all-day comfort, this formula feels next to nothing to wear, so comfortable and breathable. Again I want to mention the packaging on this lipstick because it is so sleek, and you just feel like a boss b****. You have to try it out for yourself.

The Rouge Lacquer Long-Lasting Lipstick.

From Sephora Collection!! There are so many colours to pick from. However, the colour 35 in I want it all being a deep red is suitable for anyone, but deeper skin tones will love it! With these only being $19, you cannot go wrong, and you will love the shine in these!

Fenty’s Gloss Bomb in Hot Cherry

Finishing off with Miss Riri. I wanted to give you a gloss! Fenty’s Gloss Bomb in Hot Cherry gives you a beautiful reddish tint to the lip. Nothing too overbearing, just a little *flush* if you will… I love this gloss type on days you want to give a little something but also have it be very natural. With this going viral on TikTok, as most Fenty products do, you must try this one out!

Well, beauty lover, that’s all for now. On your next shopping day, try something new and bold, and maybe even pick up one of these beautiful red lipsticks for your next red lip day! You can never go wrong with a classic red lip, be fearless, be bold!

Until next time.

xo

Chantel

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June 15, 2023
21 Cult-Favourite Beauty Products That Are Worth the Hype

Hello beauty lover, why don’t we take a trip down memory lane?

With some beauty faves, of course, it can be challenging to know what to buy with all the options out there. All the new products are coming out while the older faves are on the shelves.

So here’s a list of the favourites that have been consistently in the makeup kits over the years. From cult favourite skincare to holy grail makeup products, you’ll use it until the last drop.

1) Clinique Take The Day Off Cleansing Balm

To start, a makeup remover is essential. Clinique Take The Day Off Cleansing Balm is a well-known makeup remover and seriously a favourite for efficiently removing makeup. Often sold out, so no complaints here. This balm preps the skin nicely for a good clean afterwards!

2) CeraVe Foaming Facial Cleanser

Finding a cleanser that works for you and your skin concerns can be difficult with all the skincare. CeraVe’s cleanser options have something for everyone, and I am still waiting to hear anyone that has used this and had any issues with it. It’s gentle enough for everyday use and cleans the face like a dream. Definitely a must-try!

3) Tatcha’s Dewy Skin Cream

Of course, everyone loves a good moisturizer, so a couple of favourites…Now, most people have seen or heard of the Tatcha creams, and again, there is something for everyone’s skin type. My favourite is the dewy skin cream… heavenly! I swear your skin will thank you every time you use this.

4) SK-II’s Facial Treatment Essence

The fountain of youth in a mask. From a luxurious award-winning skincare line, this essence softens texture, evens skin tone, enhances radiance and reduces the appearance of dark spots & fine lines, leaving you with angelic dewy skin. Worth every penny!!!

5) Sol De Janeiro Brazilian Bum Bum Cream

Moisturized for the face but how about the body? The Sol De Janeiro Brazilian Bum Bum Cream is wildly viral. For a reason, this cream smells amazing! Those who don’t like a fragrance in a body cream should skip this one. However, for the summer especially, this cream is a dream! It does its job, keeping the skin nice and hydrated while smelling amazing. Love love this cream!

6) L’Oréal Paris Colour Riche Original Satin Lipstick

One word: WOW! Very comparable to high-end lipsticks; the pigment in these lipsticks is lovely and packed with full coverage on the first swipe. The colour options are also beautiful; you will surely find the perfect everyday lipstick in this line!

7) Stila Stay All Day Waterproof Eye Liner

Everyone loves a good liquid eyeliner for that perfect staple wing liner, right? The Stila Stay All Day Eye Liner is a must! The pigment is fantastic and lives up to its name. It truly does not budge once applied. This is quite the popular one as well.

8) Beauty Blender

Onto a cult favourite for makeup, the Beautyblender! I’m sure everyone and their mom has heard about this sponge. It’s a must for blending. As we have seen, many brands imitate this sponge; however, the original has always retained its popularity. Blending out creams to liquids effortlessly, this sponge has to be a part of your kit!

9) Laura Mercier Loose Setting Powder

Haven’t tried a setting powder yet? Don’t just settle for any setting powder. Cult favourite and winner of major awards, Laura Mercier’s light and beautiful Translucent Loose Setting Powder, is a game-changer. I love this powder for sitting under the eyes and oily spots on the face; this one lasts all day. Have been using this powder for years and wouldn’t consider using anything else!!

10) Ruby Woo

What are you doing if you don’t have Mac Cosmetics Ruby Woo?! A classic retro matte red lip with a fade-proof formula and blue undertones. The red lipstick of your dreams makes you feel confident and effortlessly bold with that old Hollywood charm. A classic cult favourite for a reason.

11) Nars Orgasm Blush

Iconic Nars Orgasm Blush has been a huge cult favourite for a million years. A sparkly pink with buildable coverage gives a flattering 3lovely glow to your cheekbones and stays all day. Superfine and silky powder. Simply irresistible!!

12) Velvet Teddy

More for an everyday lip, we have a popular and well-known lipstick Velvet Teddy. A matte and deeper tone beige that is primarily a warmer tone but can change depending on skin tone and lip liner paired with it. Such a lovely nude, and you must try this colour for your next everyday nude!

13) Shiseido Power Infusing Serum

An absolute must-have for all skin types!! The serum is infused with eight botanical ingredients that help to activate your skin’s inner defences and stimulate circulation. Some ingredients, such as reishi mushrooms, iris extract, lotus and ginko, collectively boost hydration and lift and firm up my skin to leave it looking radiant.

14) Soft Pinch Liquid Blush

Another pick for liquid and the extremely viral Soft Pinch Liquid Blushes from Rare Beauty is another classic for blushes; as a little goes a long way, these last for a long time!

15) Urban Decay Naked Palette

With the endless eyeshadow palettes on the market, it takes time to pick out the best of the best. However, there are treasures to remember when picking out what’s best! Urban Decay Naked palettes… were huge when they first came on the market! They have every shade you need for a perfect everyday nude look, or take it to a night look with a perfect smokey eye! My fave is the Naked Heat Palette, with warmer tones. However, there is something for everyone with each palette.

16) YSL Black Opium

This bold and sensual perfume is the one I gravitate to the most. It’s such an amazing scent; I could talk about it all day… but I’ll keep it short; if you haven’t tried it yet, go smell it, and you’re guaranteed to fall in love!

17) Giorgio Armani Luminous Silk Foundation

Now for the foundation, it takes a lot of work to pick out the best, considering there is much on the market. However, the Giorgio Armani Luminous Silk Foundation is a classic for many splurging on a good foundation. If you love a lightweight foundation, you will love this one. It’s sensitive skin-friendly, does NOT enhance pores or wrinkles, blends flawlessly, and lasts all day, giving your skin a natural glowy finish. So beautiful; you need this ASAP!!!

18) Laneige Lip Sleeping Mask

A community cult favourite!!! This moisturizing mask lasts a long time for deep hydration without icky stickiness. This mask lasts a long time. You can use it day or night and with the formulation of vitamin C. A huge best seller with reason.

19) Fresh Sugar Lip Polish Exfoliator

A must-try for dry, flaky, and cracked lips. The Fresh Sugar Lip Polish is a great Lip Scrub and a go-to for many who want fresh, hydrated lips. You’ll love this lip mask, formulated with real brown sugar to remove flakes and many other natural, hydrating ingredients!

20) Augustinus Bader The Face Oil

A magnificent oil that has a deep golden colour. The oil is not thick and doesn’t leave your face greasy or overly shiny. It has a richness that’s deeply moisturizing and calming to the skin. A wonderful compliment to the entire skincare routine I purchased. A beautiful start to your new skincare journey!

21) Ariana Grande Cloud Perfume

Another celebrity fragrance is the Ariana Grande Cloud perfume. Every time I wear this, I get compliments and questions about what I am wearing. It’s so clean, unique, and undeniably pleasing. Try it for yourself!!

Well, beauty lover, that’s all on the list. Did you see any of your favourites? Or a new potential fave? Hopefully, you got some new suggestions, or even one of your current beauty must-haves made the list! Be sure to tune in to the next beauty blog as there is much more to fill you in on, but for now, stay beautiful as you always are, and we will chat again next time!

xo,

Chantel

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June 3, 2023
16 Things That Turn Women On

1. He puts his arms around your waist and kisses your neck when he comes up behind you. This is never not hot.

2. We love it when he can have an intellectually stimulating conversation about his favourite book. It’s nice to know that he has a brain that isn’t flooded with random facts about sports and TV shows.

3. When he goes down on you without expecting any other sexual activity afterward.

4. When he plays with your hair. It‘s one of my biggest turn-ons, and I know I’m not the only girl like that!

5. When he opens doors for us and pulls out, our chairs are swoon-worthy. It’s not something we see daily, even though we should. So if you treat a woman with respect and do a few little things for her, she’ll think you the sweetest thing she’s ever seen. 🙂

6. He surprises us with our favourite flowers and chocolates or does something we never would have predicted.

7. When he’s a total gentleman and makes you feel safe, protected, and comfortable in his presence. There’s nothing more manly and sexier than this!!!

8. We women can’t get enough of funny men. Of course, making us laugh is one of many important things you need to do. It’s hot when you can take a joke and are ready to laugh at yourself without yelling or getting angry.

9. When he’s proud of you and brags about you to your friends/family.

10. When he knows to be a man and when to be a child. You can’t have too much of one; a balance should exist. When I say man, I mean a mature, romantic, serious guy who works hard and has a direction in life. By a child, I mean a man who’s silly, funny, and can enjoy nostalgic things like cartoons and comic books.

11. When he won’t complain if we want to wait to get physical. We want a man who won’t groan if we take too long applying makeup in the bathroom. The more patience you have, the happier we are with you.

12. When he gives you a foot relief massage and sensual leg caressing after a long day. Yum!!!

13. When he has excellent hygiene and is well-dressed. We obviously can’t resist a suit and a tie. However, you don’t always need to wear a suit and tie but look clean and presentable. Rawr!!

14. We love it when he’s confident in himself, comfortable in his skin and owns any room he’s in. Periodtttt!!!

15. It’s a huge turn-on when he’s willing to give her her space yet still be there.

16. We love it when you seduce us with food by cooking a delicious meal or taking us to a yummy food spot. The point is to feed our souls with our favourite food.

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